Bugger off!

at the strike of midnight on tue, 15th nov...

me : happy b'day!
vm : thanks, 54!
me : wow! u hv a lot of friends huh?
vm : becoz i'm "so good"!
me : yeah, right! (silently thinking, if u had that many friends, shdn't u be busy celebrating your birthdays with your 53 other friends at zouk, loft etc, instead of chatting wif me online???)

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just a couple of weeks back at work...

vm : look! look! (while pointing at the pc screen)
me : (turned to look) oh... the vw beetle! so?
vm : my car in edinburgh
me : nice
vm : i know
me : how much is that car?
vm : (paused to think) i don't know. i paid cash for it
me : (thinking silently, u hv a beetle in edinburgh but u're driving a '93 kancil that's fading in colour?)

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many months ago at work...

vm : can u give me a ride out to ioi?
me : sure. where's yr car?
vm : i sent it for servicing.
me : oright. (drove vm out to ioi, waited for his dad to come pick him)
vm : oh my dad's here... thanks. bye!
me : g'nite. (thinking silently, yeah... right! and i vividly remembered u said that your dad has a jaguar, why was he driving the '83 datsun that looks like scrap metal instead?)

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To err is human

i x like dots.

but i chosed this template becoz i like the cheery shades.
black is mysterious
black has an air of supremacy
but it also equates to gloominess and sombreness.
but I AM happy, for now...

i'm happy coz i learnt to forgive.
after a decade and more, i hv FINALLY learnt to forgive, forget the past, move on and grow.

"forgiveness" - such an alien word to me.

i learnt to forgive a week after i attended my uncle's funeral.
his sudden death jolted me back into perspective.
about life
about family
about priorities
about my choices

it's true, u cannot start afresh happily without forgiving and putting the bitterness behind.

now that i've forgiven that someone, i'm looking forward to the years of being a better and happier me.

in celebration of a happy beginning, i've started this blog.

coincidentally, today is the mark of our 1st wedding anniversary too!

go on... take a look at our beautifully captured wedding shots.

N & i will be celebrating our anniversary in sudu or zipangu on halloween day. choices... choices... whatever it is, i'm excited!!!